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When Staying 'For the Kids' Might Do More Harm Than Leaving Dear Reader, A Quiet Guilt That Echoes in the Hearts of Parents “If I leave, I could traumatize my children—I should endure this for their sake.” It’s a haunting thought that echoes through the minds of many parents who find themselves in high-conflict marriages. They imagine staying together as the noble choice—the ultimate sacrifice to give their children a “whole” home. But what if that very sacrifice is doing more harm than good?...

Issue #9 5 Fun Ways to Make Cleaning Feel Like Play for Kids Dear Reader, Let’s face it, getting kids to clean can feel like trying to brush a cat’s teeth. You ask them to pick up toys and they vanish like little ninjas. Suddenly, their legs don’t work, they’re “too tired,” or they need an emergency snack. We’ve all been there. But what if cleaning could actually be fun? Like, really fun. The kind of fun where kids actually want to help. Sounds impossible? It's not. With just a bit of...

Issue #8 Creating a ‘Home’ in Two Houses: Helping Kids Adjust to Dual Households Dear Reader, Divorce or separation is never easy, especially when kids are involved. When families split, it’s not just about dividing up assets or deciding who gets the couch. One of the biggest challenges is figuring out how to help the kids feel secure, loved, and stable in two different homes. If you're a parent trying to make the best out of a tough situation, you’re not alone. Plenty of families go through...

Issue #7 What to Expect in Child Custody Court: A Step-by-Step Guide Dear Reader, If you’re heading into child custody court, you might be feeling a little overwhelmed, maybe even terrified. Let’s be honest, legal stuff can get confusing fast, especially when it’s about your kids. But don’t worry. I’m here to walk you through the whole thing in a way that actually makes sense. Whether you're still trying to work things out with your co-parent or you're knee-deep in court papers, this guide...

Issue #7 How to Win a Custody Battle: Tips from a Family Law Coach Dear Reader, Hey there, friend. If you’re reading this, you’re probably going through one of the most emotionally draining and nerve-wracking things a parent can face in a custody battle. First, let me say this: I’m sorry you’re here, but I’m glad you’re taking the time to prepare yourself. That already says something powerful you care. And that’s a great start. I’ve worked with tons of parents as a family law coach, and while...

Issue #6 The Do’s and Don’ts of Talking to Kids About Custody Arrangements Dear Reader, Talking to your kids about custody arrangements isn’t exactly anyone’s idea of a good time. It's emotional, delicate, and let's be real pretty tricky to navigate. Whether you're just starting the process or you're already knee-deep in co-parenting logistics, one of the toughest parts is figuring out how to talk to your kids about what’s going on. You want to be honest but not overwhelming. You want to...

Issue #5 Who Gets the House in a Divorce? Understanding Family Property Laws Dear Reader, It’s probably one of the most gut-wrenching questions that pops up when a couple decides to part ways. When you’re dealing with a divorce, there’s a mountain of things to sort through emotions, logistics, finances, but the question of who stays and who goes when it comes to the house hits particularly hard. Why? Because a house isn’t just bricks and mortar. It’s where you laughed over burnt dinners,...

Issue #4 Shared Custody Survival Guide: Balancing Parenting & Legal Challenges Dear Reader, If you’re here, you’re probably in the middle of or about to dive into shared custody. First of all, deep breath. You’re not alone, and you’re not the first to feel overwhelmed, confused, or even a little heartbroken. Shared custody can be one heck of a rollercoaster ride. You’ve got your kids’ needs, your own healing process, co-parent communication (or lack thereof), schedules, school logistics, and...

Issue #3 What Happens When a Parent Violates a Court-Ordered Parenting Plan? Dear Reader, So, you're either going through a custody situation or just curious about what actually happens when a parent breaks the rules of a court-ordered parenting plan. Either way, I'm glad you're here because it’s not exactly something they teach you in school, right? Parenting plans are like roadmaps for co-parents. They’re designed to lay out exactly when and where kids will be, who picks them up from...